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Joseph Mayuyo

The anxiety, the shame of hearing my family come home from work, knowing I’m still in the same chair as when they were leaving for work. There is truly no greater shame. I lock myself in my room for weeks at a time. I lost my job in February of…

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The first addiction I believe I ever had was to sex, and the forbidden fruit came my way before I ever pictured myself doing drugs. As a netizen of Quora and Reddit, questions from involuntary celibate males. …

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Ai version of me.

You’re here because you want to find out why he stopped talking to you. But first, let me know if this sounds familiar.

Your conversations are endless, he treats you right, and he seems like the guy you’ve been looking for all this time. …

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Remember when you’d wake up in the middle of the night with your T.V. on displaying the infamous sales pitch on an infomercial, “Wait! There’s More!

These seven reasons why he stopped talking to you are a little more advanced.

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Listen in!

Before we start, let’s make it clear. I do not support going down on anyone that isn’t in a relationship with me. You’re free to do what you like, but if you want that kitty to stay around, prove ownership in her eyes. That’s easier said than done…

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Take this into perspective; the greatest writers in history never touched a keyboard. Maybe never even touched a typewriter. Please think of the word write; it’s often attributed more to content than physically writing with your hand. I’ve come to understand that we’re at the age where we physically write…

The red light district in some asian country where one could purchase sex either legally or in the grey area
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Before I get insulted with comments like:

  • You pay for pussy because you can’t get it for free.
  • What a loser, who pays for pussy?
  • Asian, small man, yeah, he’s a virgin!
  • That’s disgusting and will ruin society!
  • Here comes the uproar of Babylon and Sodomy!
  • You’re such a creep…

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It might seem contradictory to believe that having strong enemies is a blessing—the last tweet of the late Nipsey Hussle. I want to focus on the lesson that he was trying to share. This principle is not new. It is one of the oldest lessons we should have been taught…

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I’m almost thirty, and I seriously have nothing going for me. I’m failing in school. I want to work, but I’ve been fired so many times — I think I am traumatized. Unemployable? Is that even a thing? So I do what any “sane” person would do. I start a…

Joseph Mayuyo

Startup Manager at, Building My Personal Brand Through Storytelling. A former cult member and street pharmacist with relationship advice.

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